Spiritual Queen

Jim spoke about writing a cheque to himself for $10 million dollars and gave himself five years to earn this through acting. He did of course achieve this within the five years so this is how I first got inspired. I wrote myself a cheque from my actual bank account’s cheque book for £1,000,000 and gave myself five years to achieve this. I’m now two years into that manifestation and although it still feels a long way off I’m working through any blocks that come up and successfully growing my businesses at a steady rate.

After finding the Law of Attraction I knew this would be the answer to my money prayers, I knew it was possible to manifest my income increasing no matter how hopeless the situation may have seemed at the time. My family didn’t put much pressure on me, and I didn’t put that pressure on myself. I knew I was going to be okay after everything I’d been through the Universe has my back.

Within six months I had manifested tripling my annual turnover in my business, so not only could I afford to live in my flat and lead a great life - I could manifest a house with a garden and be able to afford it by myself. The best thing about this was, I didn’t do anything different in my business, I still did exactly the same work as I was before, but it was just earning an incredible amount more! I think what really helped me do this so successfully was to believe that the Universe had my back, knowing I’d be supported and that I wouldn’t be made homeless and knowing that I always had my family’s support if I needed it. I had options no matter what, and that’s what released the control and pressure off the situation.

Another great tip for your Law of Attraction toolkit is to cleanse your home. As well as taking care of ourselves and vibes we need to take care of the vibes within our home. Our workplace and home are most likely to be where we spend most of our time. So these spaces need to reflect that love and tranquillity we wish to see within ourselves. Cleansing these spaces can be really easy and powerful - I personally like to use white sage and paulo santo sticks.

One problem I hear time and time again is that people will use the Law of Attraction to manifest something - get it and stop everything. Then they wonder why abundance isn’t consistently flowing to them. Well I think the answer is straight forward here - like attracts like. If you want consistent abundance and miracles each day of your life you’re going to need to show up every day of your life. This means doing your daily practices, finding gratitude in each moment, using affirmations, raising your vibration and committing to your journey. The more consistent you are the more consistent the Universe will be with you. It may seem simple but I promise it’s much easier to pull yourself out of a funk when your consistently doing these practices instead of once in a blue moon.

it could be down to you and your vibe. It’s time to get honest at this point as it’s only going to benefit you in the long run. When a negative thought comes into your head, how do you address it? The best way in my opinion is to send it love, I simply say ‘Ego, I know you’re trying to protect me but don’t worry I’ve got this’. Even if your situation seems helpless right now, you can change that in an instant. Do you still feel like a victim? Many times, especially when manifesting love, we have to own our emotions and choose to take ourselves out of victim mode and into success mode. We need to re-write the story we tell ourselves and life as if it’s already here. So by re-claiming our power, choosing love, forgiving those who have done wrong to us even if they haven’t apologised to us directly, we set ourselves free and allow ourselves to be present, able to stand in our power and be fearless about the future. Because all we have is right now, we can’t go back to yesterday and tomorrow hasn’t happened yet - so choose how you want to feel right now and live that with every ounce of your soul.

I mentioned earlier about the importance of raising your vibration. Your vibes attract your reality, so if you’re feeling negative, lacking or fearful, guess what you’re attracting more of! Your vibration is super important to maintain and if vibration sounds like a weird word that makes no sense it basically means your vibes. So if you want to manifest your dream life, you need to work on maintaining a high vibe state so that you reflect what you want to manifest. The way you can do this is through EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and there are lots of great videos on YouTube for raising your vibration and for specific emotions. Brad Yates is my favourite teacher for EFT on YouTube. Looking after yourself, your health and removing any negativity from your life. Negativity can be the leading factor in our vibe being affected, so make sure you’re not feeding the negativity and only putting energy into the positives. Watching your favourite movie, working on your self-love, all of these are great ways to lift your funks and raise your vibration. It is a daily practise though as your vibe will change depending on what happens in your daily life and thoughts.

So let’s cover what you should be doing on a daily basis as part of your spiritual journey. There are certain tools and practises which will help to maintain your high vibe each day and will help you to incorporate gratitude into your everyday life. I personally love to do a gratitude practise each day, not only does this start my day off with love, it puts me in the best possible mood for the day ahead. I simply write five things I’m grateful for right now in my life. The way I like to do this is by writing ‘I am so grateful for...because...’ Some people confuse a gratitude practise for a manifestation list. Gratitude should simply be giving thanks for everything you have right now and these can be small or big things. If you find you’re repeating the same points each day then really dig deep, what about your healthy organs, what about the clean water accessible in your tap, what about your vision right now to be able to read this book. There are so many things to be grateful for and I strongly urge you to make time for this practise each morning as soon as you wake up to put yourself in a great mood for the day.

I also like to do an EFT video each morning to raise my vibes, I dedicate half an hour every single day to my spiritual practices. They are so important and keep me connected to my faith in the Universe and feeling great in general. Law of Attraction isn’t just a shower once and you’re clean for your whole life kinda job, it’s an everyday regime just like showering. The more you shower the more clean you are, just like gratitude. You can also write some affirmations in the morning as well to accompany your manifestations. So if you were wanting to attract money you could write ‘I am constantly receiving money from unexpected sources’. Affirmations should always be written in present tense, even if they haven’t materialised yet. You can say these out loud, write them down or even say them in the mirror for added effect. I like to stick my affirmations on my fridge so that every time I pass it I have to say them out loud and believe it!

There are three famous steps in the Law of Attraction process - Ask, Believe, Receive. Now I’m going to blow that theory out the ball park and say, hun there are five. I’ve found since acknowledging these five steps it’s made it so more enjoyable to manifest and most importantly easier!

The full moon is all about letting go and releasing old beliefs and energy. I simply set up a little alter with candles and my favourite crystals, write a list of everything I want to let go of, even if it’s really negative. I then burn this list in a bowl and they say the quicker it burns the more you’re ready to let go of the problem. I have looked slightly crazy doing these practices before. I remember my best friend Selina and I did this when I lived in a top floor flat. We had the window wide open in the kitchen to prevent the fire alarms going off and it was right in the middle of a thunder storm. To any passersby or neighbours we must have looked crazy burning things out of my kitchen window. Anyway it bloody works even if we did look a little silly! Now luckily I have a beautiful garden so I would strongly advise for health and safety reasons, doing this practice outside, thunder storm is optional but adds a desired dramatic effect.