Self-esteem: The Lazy Person’s Guide!

Improving your self-esteem isn’t about becoming selfish, loud, competitive and arrogant. It’s about taking care of yourself so that you have the strength and energy to help and give to others when appropriate.

It’s easy to look back and blame the past, your parents, your siblings, your teachers, your partner for leaving you, and so on, but at the end of the day the way you feel about yourself now is your responsibility. You can choose now to respond to life without your old self-doubt, hesitation and confusion.

it is time to take a deep breath and deal with the present.

It’s about being yourself, and knowing that within you lies the power to create all that you want in life.

when self-esteem is low you are not in the driving seat. Other people or events are steering the wheel, while you crouch in the back wondering where they will take you next.

You need to feel relaxed and happy in all aspects of your life to function optimally.

You are alive, but you aren’t really living.

The trouble with this is that sooner or later lack of confidence in one area of your life is going to negatively affect other areas of your life.

You feel guilty when you say no. You probably say, ‘sorry’, ‘yes, of course’, and ‘it’s only me’ quite a lot.

If anything good happens to you it is just luck, while the success of others is due to ability