Self-esteem: The Lazy Person’s Guide!

Improving your self-esteem isn’t about becoming selfish, loud, competitive and arrogant. It’s about taking care of yourself so that you have the strength and energy to help and give to others when appropriate.

-esteem will not improve if you can’t free yourself from the past.

And it’s when you aren’t being yourself that self-esteem is low.

Improving your self-esteem isn’t about becoming selfish, loud, competitive and arrogant. It’s about taking care of yourself so that you have the strength and energy to help and give to others when appropriate. It’s about being open-minded, assertive and confident in your abilities.

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To prevent this, self-esteem needs to be grounded firmly in self-acceptance.

That’s exactly what low self-esteem does to your life. You are alive, but you aren’t really living.

need to feel relaxed and happy in all aspects of your life to function optimally.

When self-esteem is low, ‘life is doubt’.

To prevent this, self-esteem needs to be grounded firmly in self-acceptance. The concept of self-acceptance is based on the knowledge that we are all fallible human beings, we all make mistakes and nobody is perfect. So although you would like to be 100 per cent perfect all the time, the important thing is to learn to accept that sometimes you will be wrong and you are fallible.

Self-esteem without self-acceptance sets you up for disappointments, stress and unhappiness when misfortune arises and self-esteem is attacked. You need to learn to accept yourself, warts and all. One advantage of this is that it becomes easier to accept others and their fallibilities.

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