"She didn’t leave overnight. She got over you little by little—over years."

Are you wondering why it felt sudden when, in reality, the signs were there all along?

In Hey, Guys! Don’t Be Surprised!, Tamar dives into the unspoken reasons women walk away from relationships that seemed stable. With wisdom drawn from her personal journey, breathwork practice, and countless real-life conversations, she uncovers the patterns most men miss—until it’s too late.

In this book, you will:

Recognize the subtle yet critical signs of emotional disconnection.
Understand why repeated unmet needs slowly erode love and trust.
Learn why “complaints” are often deep calls for connection, not nagging.
Discover how women grieve the end of a relationship while still in it.
Gain actionable tools to prevent these patterns from repeating.

Hey, Guys! Don’t Be Surprised! isn’t just another relationship book—it’s a wake-up call for men who want to build deeper connections, prevent silent breakups, and create fulfilling, lasting relationships.

Start listening, start changing, and start building the relationship you’ve always wanted—before it’s too late.

Tamar Olivia

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