Joost Elffers

Men are more ready to repay an injury than a benefit, because gratitude is a burden and revenge a pleasure. Tacitus, c. a.d. 55-120

Friends often agree on tilings in order to avoid an argument. They cover up their unpleasant qualities so as to not offend each other. They laugh extra hard at each odier's jokes. Since honesty rarely strengthens friendship, you may never know how a friend truly feels. Friends will say that they love your poetry, adore your music, envy your taste in clothesmaybe they mean it, often they do not.

Strangely enough, it is your act of kindness tiiat unbalances everything.

Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good.”

redistributing people’s rewards in a way that they determine

persuasion, even a subtle form of coercion

Genuinely innocent people may still be playing for power, and are often horribly effective at the game, since they are not hindered by reflection

The arrow shot by the archer may or may not kill a single person. But stratagems devised by a wise man can kill even babes in the womb

Like Janus, the double-faced Roman deity and guardian of all gates and doorways

to break the patterns of the past