They give you a hint and then you notice and make them comfortable by saying it’s what you want.” Eve paused, impressed at her discovery that she could translate social life for me so clearly. “So, when Mom said you didn’t like dramas, that was her way to say she didn’t want to see a drama. And when she asked if you wanted to see a specific movie, that was the one she wanted to see. You were supposed to act excited about whatever movie she asked you about. When you said ‘whatever you want,’ she took that to mean that you didn’t want to see it.”