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A Joosr Guide to How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

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  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    And when confronted with negative feelings, place yourself in the person’s shoes to understand their reasons and motivations
  • psingh1has quoted4 years ago
    You can use showmanship or emphasize honorable, deeper motivations to influence people into agreeing to your idea as well. Frame questions, give examples, and create situations that help people arrive at the conclusion themselves
  • psingh1has quoted4 years ago
    So, get your ideas across to people using dramatic techniques and not just plain facts and figures. Attaching a deeper, more dignified purpose to your idea will also help you win them over to your side
  • psingh1has quoted4 years ago
    It stands to reason, then, that to become a pleasant and likable person yourself, you have to show interest in and appreciation for the people around you. The best way to do this is to develop a genuine interest in other people. That way, you don’t have to worry about coming across as insincere and can focus on the next step: displaying your interest through words, gestures, and body language
  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    Once the positive mood has been set, encourage the other person to present their ideas.
  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    And finally, win them over to your side by conveying ideas in an animated and dramatic way, or by emphasizing the deeper, more high-minded motives. Both are good ways to attract attention and make people really consider what you’re discussing.
  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    You begin by adopting a kind and friendly temperament in dealing with the person.
  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    Next, you shift focus to the points of mutual agreement and keep stressing those points throughout the conversation.
  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    You’re the best manager we have!” or “You always look good!” on the other hand, are probably going to be construed as flattery. No one likes mindless flattery
  • Patrickgreenpanthas quoted6 years ago
    “The presentation you gave yesterday was great!” is sincere appreciation. “This color looks great on you!” is sincere appreciation.
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