Natalie Jovanic

I am Natalie Jovanic – a Heal Your Relationship Mentor. And if you are unhappy in your relationship or if you always end up with the wrong man, you might want to keep reading because I may be able to help you.Let me tell you three stories of my life.Do you know how freedom feels?On a warm Tuesday morning in September, my mother died following a period of great suffering. I could not imagine my life without her, and I did not have any idea how my life was going to continue. Her doctor encouraged me to see my mother’s death as though it had brought her freedom. Freedom… I sensed by the energy of her words that being free must be wonderful. Freedom was a concept that I had never known before; sadness and pain were what I knew. I felt that maybe it was a wonderful choice for my mum. Would I have to die first to be able to be free from suffering? It was that day when I was 19 years old that I left home forever. I left behind darkness, violence and emotional abuse, and began my search for freedom. I found it after 18 years. Freedom has many faces - freedom from suffering, freedom from negative programing and attachments, freedom to say “no” to manipulative relationships, freedom to choose relationships that support me, freedom to be happy, freedom to follow my dreams, freedom to be myself and the freedom to choose a man with whom I can experience true love and belonging. How do you want your man to make you feel?I was sitting in a little bar by the Bitan Lake in Taipei sharing stories about our relationships with some of my colleagues. I could hear the love and respect they had in their voices when they spoke of their partners. How happy does a woman feel if she is loved by a man in this way? I wondered what my partner would say. All I heard were phrases like Your cats’ hair is everywhere. You have to clean it! How dare you look for a better job again? Why do you always want to change something? Why can’t you ever stay the same? I felt his fear. Change was a thread. I looked into the faces of the two men in front of me. Their eyes were gleaming and their face full of light while they told me how amazing their partners were. I’d never seen so much love before. I knew that this was how a relationship was supposed to be. My partner would never talk like this about me. It hit me like a punch in the stomach. I felt desperate and unhappy. And I realized that my relationship was not the way I wanted it to be. I longed for something better.I tried to make changes but soon after, I gave up. We were just too different: I embraced change and growth, and he didn’t. When I had asked him to do couple’s counselling before my trip to Taipei, he rejected it and told me that I was the only problem and wasn’t willing to change anything. The existence of my cats was a constant source of conflicts. I had many dreams, and he never knew what he wanted. I knew that it was better to stay alone because I wanted to sort out the negative effect of the sexual and emotional violence I had experienced as a child. I knew that I had to find peace with these incidents so that they wouldn’t influence my relationship in a negative way. In the following years, I learned all about love and relationships, I learned to avoid the traps I fell into in the past. I faced my shadow, and I changed the negative programing I had received in my childhood. And more important, I cleared away all inner barriers within myself that I had created against true love.Then, I met a woman – Ana, a coach. Accompanied by a severe thunderstorm, I told her the story of my life. She looked at me and said: You should become a coach. You’ve got all it takes. Soon after, I started my trainings to become a coach, then a healer and facilitator for family constellations. Now – as a relationship mentor – I pass on what I believe in, but it isn’t just knowledge, theory, and professional experience. I teach what has helped me to experience inner changes that earlier I w
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